by Bob | Oct 8, 2021 | Blog
July 22nd. That was the last time I wrote on here. It is October 7 right now, and in two days it will be Oct 9th. The 2 year anniversary of my wife’s passing. I swear, over the last two years it is almost like time lost all meaning. Years often seem to fly by in...
by Bob | Jul 22, 2021 | Blog
I had never even had stitches in my life, let alone surgery, but in 2017, my doctor told me I should have my gall bladder removed. Ava was almost 3 and we had a lot going on. Of course, those were excuses. I was scared. I found a specialist who went along with me that...
by Bob | Jul 12, 2021 | Blog
Over the last month or so, something was either asked of me or assumed of me, and it made me think, I need to write about this because those who aren’t in a current battle with grief don’t realize this. After Kim passed, many people would tell me, the...
by Bob | Jul 7, 2021 | Blog
,One thing I still cannot do almost two years later….. PURGE. I’m not being philosophical here. I’m not talking about purging emotions or bad thoughts. I mean I literally cannot purge our home and get rid of all the clutter we are drowning in. If...
by Bob | Jul 6, 2021 | Blog
It had been about 2 months since Kim passed and I was all over the place. When you suffer such a loss, your brain goes into a protection mode. It wants to protect you from the pain, the trauma, so what it does is starts diverting your emotions and attentions to other...