by Bob | Jul 22, 2021 | Blog
I had never even had stitches in my life, let alone surgery, but in 2017, my doctor told me I should have my gall bladder removed. Ava was almost 3 and we had a lot going on. Of course, those were excuses. I was scared. I found a specialist who went along with me that...
by Bob | Jul 12, 2021 | Blog
Over the last month or so, something was either asked of me or assumed of me, and it made me think, I need to write about this because those who aren’t in a current battle with grief don’t realize this. After Kim passed, many people would tell me, the...
by Bob | Jul 7, 2021 | Blog
,One thing I still cannot do almost two years later….. PURGE. I’m not being philosophical here. I’m not talking about purging emotions or bad thoughts. I mean I literally cannot purge our home and get rid of all the clutter we are drowning in. If...
by Bob | Jul 6, 2021 | Blog
It had been about 2 months since Kim passed and I was all over the place. When you suffer such a loss, your brain goes into a protection mode. It wants to protect you from the pain, the trauma, so what it does is starts diverting your emotions and attentions to other...
by Bob | Jul 2, 2021 | Blog
How could you do this God? That was all I needed to know. I knew Kim and Ava did not deserve this, so it was OBVIOUSLY an attack at me, to punish me for something I did, but what? What did I do that required such a severe sentence, and one that impacted so many...
by Bob | Jun 23, 2021 | Blog
What do I believe about religion? When Kim died, I was offered the chance to speak to a priest that night. My response was to tell him to get the hell away from me. There is no way God would do this if he existed. Over 40 years of being catholic, getting confirmed,...
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