by Bob | Jul 6, 2021 | Blog
It had been about 2 months since Kim passed and I was all over the place. When you suffer such a loss, your brain goes into a protection mode. It wants to protect you from the pain, the trauma, so what it does is starts diverting your emotions and attentions to other...
by Bob | Jul 2, 2021 | Blog
How could you do this God? That was all I needed to know. I knew Kim and Ava did not deserve this, so it was OBVIOUSLY an attack at me, to punish me for something I did, but what? What did I do that required such a severe sentence, and one that impacted so many...
by Bob | Jun 23, 2021 | Blog
What do I believe about religion? When Kim died, I was offered the chance to speak to a priest that night. My response was to tell him to get the hell away from me. There is no way God would do this if he existed. Over 40 years of being catholic, getting confirmed,...
by Bob | Jun 22, 2021 | Blog
When we think of “traditions” our mind jumps to holidays. Grandmas stuffing at Thanksgiving. The annual Christmas parties. Traditions are a lot simpler than that though. For me, a tradition was something like how every Friday it was pizza and movie night for the three...
by Bob | Jun 21, 2021 | Blog
It’s crazy sometimes when I see the synchronicity with what is happening in my life right now with posts I wrote a year ago or so. Lately I have been feeling this urge to post a lot of pics of Kim and her life to my friends. I wrote a blog post a few weeks back...
by Bob | Jun 20, 2021 | Blog
What did you do for Father’s Day? I had my gall bladder taken out. Yeah, top that! Well I actually had it taken out 6 days earlier and was still recovering on Fathers Day. I’ve thought about how I want to write about that because there is just so much I...