No Boys Allowed

No Boys Allowed

No Boys Allowed Written by Bob  Blog v 0 Comment(s)  April 5, 2021 As the days passed, I tried to hit the fast forward button on healing. I learned later on that much like the “Door Close” button in elevators, the fast forward button...
Forgiveness starts with yourself

Forgiveness starts with yourself

Let’s address something that I am going to address A LOT as I do these posts, here, and on our Facebook page. If you’re grieving and you have a day out of nowhere that you feel, “good”, do not beat yourself up over it. Its natural to feel horrible that you caught...
Distractions. Let’s try that.

Distractions. Let’s try that.

If you weren’t there during all this, and you’re reading these blog posts for the first time, you might think I was in a midst of denial and perhaps trying to act like nothing was wrong by how busy I immediately became. Distraction was a major draw. I WANTED to be...
Help, I need somebody.

Help, I need somebody.

I hope you are still reading along. I will not lie and say there is a happy ending, but I can tell you that if I can be here, now, typing this….reading these posts from a few years ago and discussing them, you can make it too. I think its important that as you...
From “Wow” to “How”

From “Wow” to “How”

The funeral was 6 days after her passing. As I look back t my social media feed, the only thing I posted a few days before the funeral up until the day of was pictures of old memories. Most were from when we started dating. When life was full of mystery and adventure,...
Coming Back “Home”

Coming Back “Home”

After she passed, we stayed at our friends’ house. There is a married couple with a little boy, close in age to Ava, that we were close with. From the moment she passed, they were there and brought us to their house, gave us their bed, fed us, and mediated the...